Friday, February 8, 2008

Dating After Divorce: Dating Tips For Boomers



Impressing someone can be really difficult.
Few important tips for getting connected with your desired hot dates are:
• Don’t be desperate to impress:

If you are trying to impress people with things which don’t go with your personality, then this would communicate insecurity on your part.

Talking about your wealth, job, car, achievements, etc. is also boring because this indirectly communicates that you have got nothing to talk about your personality as well as other things which create attraction.

Definitely, the things which are stated above are good but they should not be used for impressing others as it might have undesirable consequences. Hence, use your personality for impressing others for getting better results.

• Don’t Get Obsessed:

When you begin dating people, don’t get overly obsessed with some particular person. Think about meeting more number of dates for maximizing your chances of finding a match. This is required as not everyone will be serious enough about you to be calling anytime after the date.

Hence, have a laid back and fun game type approach towards this. People usually desire of meeting only one date with an expectation that the particular person will be the match that they are seeking. Instead of this, you should give yourself greater number of options by dating more than one person.

• Be Confident:

If you are looking at someone for admiring them, hold on to your confidence when they look into your eyes. You should also look straight into their eyes without giving the impression of a stare.

Continue till they break away this eye contact. You should never break away as it shows that you are not confident enough. Maintaining secret is a hugely important element of attraction magic. This also provides you with a way of hitting conversation with them.

For instance, you can accuse them that they were looking at you as if you were some Belgian chocolate. It’s different, it’s attractive and it’s fun, try it.

• Forget About Clues:

Experts advice us to look for cues which convey that someone is finding you attractive. For e.g. preening, crossing legs or pointing feet towards you, playing with hair, licking lips, etc.

All this is nonsense. If you really have a desire of impressing someone, use your communication and personality for creating attraction.

Being different from the other competitors is also essential. Waiting will get you nowhere.

If you really want someone, take the initiative for making it happen.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Too much confidence can ruin the romance i guess hehe :D